A Time of Prayer and Reflection

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Dear brothers and sisters in the Lord,

The calendars (regular and liturgical) of these current days have some points for reflection form us, historically and faith wise.

We are right at President’s Day, which is a combination of the former observations of Washington and Lincoln’s birthdays. As citizens of the United States it behooves us, I believe, to know something about these two Presidents, their history and their respective eras. Growing up in Springfield, Illinois I was able to experience firsthand much of the Lincoln heritage.  I would certainly recommend Doris Kearns Goodwin’s “A Team of Rivals” as an insightful contemporary narration of President Lincoln and the challenges of the Civil War era and the life of Lincoln.

Right upon us now is “Mardi Gras”, which means “Fat Tuesday”.  This refers to the fact that when Lent was very strict the kitchens of homes and establishments were emptied of all fat and meat, to prepare for Lent, which follows the next day on Ash Wednesday. The colors of Mardi Gras, and some of the customs, also can trace their origin back to the Epiphany as well.  This can remind us of at some level, of the connection between faith, ritual and thus, even our “secular festivals”. 

This is also an occasion to reflect on the tremendous and apostolic work and mission of Catholic Charities here in Orange County.  We just celebrated their Mardi Gras Gala last Friday night, which brings so many people together for the purpose of supporting the mission of Catholic Charities. At the Gala, the local Knights and Ladies of the Holy Sepulcher were recognized for their outreach locally and for the faithful support of the mission of the Church in the Holy Land in these violent times in the Middle East.  Thank you Tita Smith for your leadership and that of your Board and staff.

Finally with Ash Wednesday upon us, Lent is here.  The word Lent is actually an old English word.  Countries whose heritage is Catholic, use a word such as “Quaresima” (Italy) or “Cuaresima” (Spanish speaking ) that reflects the 40 days that Christ spent in the desert.

This season of “Prayer, Fasting and Almsgiving ” are an opportunity to reflect on how we are disciples of the Lord, and how we are called to live that relationship with Him in a deeper and more profound and even public way!  More later on this season…

Finally, in the early days of Lent, Fr. Binh Nguyen, Fr. Francis Vu SJ and I will be in Vietnam for the celebration of TET ( Lunar New Year) and the first days of Lent.  We hope and pray that this visit will continue to strengthen the bonds of Faith, family and friendship between our Diocese and the people of Vietnam.

A very blessed season of Lent to all and thank you for all of sacrifice and generosity in so many ways.  May the Lord bless you always .

+Kevin W. Vann


A Week for Gratitude

There are a number of gatherings and events that mark the life of the Church in the United States and around the world in these days.

In the Church in the U.S., this week is known as “National Marriage Week.” This week brings to mind for me, first of all, my mother and father as I go through our family albums and as our family prepares our home of many years for sale this spring. I wish to salute my sister M.T. in that regard for all she has done. Seeing the pictures of my mother and father over the years, I think once more how they taught all of us, by their lives, modeling and sacrifices, what the Sacrament of Marriage given to us by Christ is. I think also of the witness of all involved in marriage preparation in our Diocese of Orange and beyond, and those who have enriched my life as a priest over the years, particularly those involved in Marriage Encounter both in Spanish and English. The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops has a place on its website where couples can make a retreat on line this week, and I would highly recommend it.

We just finished Catholic Schools Week and celebrated a Mass and dinner in honor of our consecrated men and women here in the Diocese of Orange. Last night I spent an evening with the Norbertines at St. Michael’s Abbey. I reflected on the words of Pope Francis in his apostolic letter addressed “to all consecrated people on the occasion of consecrated life.” Using the three aims in this letter—to look to the past with gratitude, to live the present with passion and to embrace the future with hope—I shared my own vocation story with them and how the gift of consecrated life was integral to hearing the voice of Christ. This series began with a talk by Father Abbot Eugene Hayes, O.Praem, and I was featured on the second night. There will be a series of presentations in the evenings ahead by other men and women religious. I thank Abbot Hayes so much for his invitation for this reflection and a time of prayer and fraternity with the Norbertine community.

At the end of Catholic Schools Week we held an appreciation banquet for our teachers, faculty, staff and school board members for all of our elementary and high schools. During this banquet, as mentioned in last week’s Orange County Catholic, Sister Mary Vianney Ennis, RSM, was honored for her years of teaching and administration at St. John the Baptist School in Costa Mesa. The witness of her religious life as a Sister of Mercy has made a difference in the lives of so many children and families here over these past 50 years. As she prepares to return to her native Ireland, we thank Sister, pray for her, and reflect on the centrality and importance of the gift of consecrated life to the Church.

And in this year of consecrated life, I would publicly like to acknowledge another Sister of Mercy who has affected many in this country and around the world. Sister Mary Ann Walsh, RSM, has recently returned to the motherhouse of the Sisters of Mercy in Albany, N.Y. I first got to know Sister Mary Ann when I was a student priest in Rome and so many of us—priests, religious and lay men and women—would walk to the “Stational Church Masses” in Rome during the Lenten season. She was part of the big family of American seminarians, priests, religious and lay people who spent time in the Eternal City for ministry and study. Her ministry of communication was a part of the work of Catholic News Service at that time. In later years, after I became the Bishop of Fort Worth, I got to know her in the Office of Communications for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. She was a great help to me when she and Barry McLaughlin were in Fort Worth for communication workshops and helped us through some challenging times. Each time I was at the Bishops’ Conference headquarters I would enjoy visiting with her about the latest projects and challenges. Her humor, insight and comprehension of the local and Universal Church were a gift to us all. Her book about the life of Saint John Paul II is a wonderful resource. In these first months of the Year of Consecrated Life I would like to thank Sister Mary Ann publicly for her friendship and help to all of us to communicate and express ourselves more effectively as people of faith. We all extend our prayers to her and the Sisters of Mercy in these days.

Finally, it was noted recently that the cause for beatification for Chiara Lubich was opened in Castelgandolfo, Italy. I mention this because I would consider myself among the “Bishop Friends of Focolare” who will be meeting in Castelgandolfo next month in March. I will not be there, but I have a great admiration for Chiara, whose ecclesial movement of “Focolare” (an Italian word meaning “hearth”)  was born out of the ashes of World War II in Trent, Italy. I salute all of the members of Focolare worldwide and their sense of ecclesial communion  and for living the mission of  unity. Their magazine, “Living City,” notes that “’Living City’ has its roots in the Focolare, a worldwide lay Catholic movement, founded in l943 in Trent, Italy, which today numbers more than 5 million people of all ages, religions and backgrounds (read more at focolare.org).  Its spirituality of communion is based on Jesus’ prayer for unity, ‘That all may be one’ (John 17:21).”

May the Lord continue to bless all of you in these still new days of the New Year.

Far From Ordinary

The days and weeks in the liturgical season following the celebration of the Nativity of the Lord are called “Ordinary Time.” This refers to the fact that the Sundays are now counted or “ordered” one after another. This period of Ordinary Time is rather short because next month the season of Lent will be upon us. The longest section of Ordinary Time follows the celebration of Pentecost and the end of the season of Easter, the 50 days celebrating the Resurrection of the Lord. These days are not to be understood as “ordinary” as compared with “extraordinary.”

Yet, in these early days of Ordinary Time there are a number of days and weeks marked out by the Church in the United States and the Universal Church for our study, consideration and celebration. For example, between Jan. 18 and 25 we have the week of Prayer for Christian Unity. This week of prayer is between these dates because Jan. 18 had historically been the feast day of the “Chair of Peter” at Antioch, and Jan. 25 is the feast day of the Conversion of Saint Paul. Following these days, I would especially like to acknowledge the commitment of Bishop Brown to his study, prayer and dialogue in the ministry of working together with so many ministers and officials of other faith communities and his work on the national level in the path to Christian unity.

This past week also saw many of the marches and prayer vigils for life held around the country, and especially here in California in Orange County, Los Angeles and San Francisco. The typically snowy winter weather on the East Coast did not hamper the enthusiasm or commitment of the crowd in Washington, D.C. at the annual March for Life that I have participated in a number of times. The march has changed over the years and it is now very youth-oriented, a fact which was noted by pro-choice advocates in the past and which concerned them. This powerful witness to the sanctity of life before birth gives a young voice to those who cannot speak.

In addressing Catholic gynecologists in Italy last year, and in his Apostolic Exhortation “Evangelii Gaudium,” Pope Francis spoke very strongly about our “throwaway” culture and the ending of pre-born life through abortion, at the same time speaking clearly about the need for pastoral care for those women and families who need care and assistance in difficult times so that they do not have to choose abortion. We need to be particularly grateful to such organizations and the many people who are committed to this in such efforts as Birth Choice, Catholic Charities, Casa Teresa and Mary’s Shelter.

Finally, we are now in Catholic Schools Week, with many of our parishes and schools planning celebrations. I was grateful to be at St. Justin Martyr Church last weekend for Sunday Mass to celebrate the opening of Catholic Schools Week and I plan on visiting a number of our other schools this coming week. Thanks to all for the sacrifice and commitment of our faculty, staff and parents, who are missioned in these schools to help our young people meet the Lord and be transformed for life. We are grateful for the religious who are still missioned in various ways throughout the schools of our diocese, and such networks as the Sisters of St. Joseph Educational Network and the Affiliated Schools Network of the Dominican Sisters of Mission San Jose. The work of the Orange Catholic Foundation and all of its efforts are tireless in providing scholarships and grants to families to help with the cost of tuition.

I was in Washington, D.C. recently for a meeting of the United States Bishops Education Committee to strengthen and help to focus once again on the centrality of the mission of our Catholic schools in our local Church. The materials they gave me from the Secretariat for Catholic Education begins with these words: “Our Greatest and Best Inheritance: Catholic Schools and Educational Choice” and “The Catholic School Advantage: Forming Children for College and Heaven.”

Enjoy and take advantage of these special weeks.

ourth-grader Shannon Lawless raises her hand to answer a question Dec. 20, 2011, at Christ the King School in Irondequoit, N.Y. National Catholic Schools Week begins Jan. 29 this year and runs through Feb. 5.  (CNS photo/Mike Crupi, Catholic Courier) (Jan. 19. 2012)

Fourth-grader Shannon Lawless raises her hand to answer a question Dec. 20, 2011, at Christ the King School in Irondequoit, N.Y. National Catholic Schools Week begins Jan. 29 this year and runs through Feb. 5. (CNS photo/Mike Crupi, Catholic Courier) (Jan. 19. 2012)

Participants march in the OneLife LA rally in Los Angeles Jan. 17. The event was one of many held across the country to mark the Jan. 22 anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court's decision legalizing abortion. (CNS photo/CNS photo/Victor Aleman, Vida Nueva) See

Participants march in the OneLife LA rally in Los Angeles Jan. 17. The event was one of many held across the country to mark the Jan. 22 anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision legalizing abortion. (CNS photo/CNS photo/Victor Aleman, Vida Nueva)


Christmas Time in Italy

Cardinal Capovilla and I

Cardinal Capovilla and I


Right now I am in Rome at Christmastide and will celebrate the Solemnity of the Epiphanyat the North American College here, where a new wing of the college will be dedicated by Cardinal Parolin, who will be representing Pope Francis. The college is at capacity enrollment and I have been blessed to spend some time with our seminarians and priests, as well as seminarians from my former dioceses. I am here now because I was supposed to come earlier during a conference on the “complementarity of man and woman” at which Pope Francis gave the opening address. Later my good friend Pastor Rick Warren of Saddleback Church gave a very well received reflection on marriage. However, because of my father’s death I was unable to be present at that time.

This time I have been able to visit the Fratelli Ruffatti factory where great progress is being made on the restoration of the Hazel Wright Organ for the future Christ Cathedral. I want to extend my thanks to all who are generously supporting this aspect of the cathedral renovation , and please pass the word that we are dedicated to the restoration of this historic instrument, whose beauty will draw many to God, and in turn the service of his holy people.

The NAC Seminarians on Pilgrimage and I

The NAC Seminarians on Pilgrimage and I

While I was in the north of Italy, I was blessed to meet and visit with the former secretary of Pope Saint John XXIII: Cardinal Loris Capovilla. He is 99 years old and sends his blessing and prayers to our diocese.

One of the highlights of this trip for me was a pilgrimage to the city of Livorno and the parish of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton. I went with a longtime friend of mine, Monsignor Fred Berardi of New York and a group of seminarians from the North American College. The city of Livorno, and the family of Antonio Filicchi in particular, were instruments of the hand of God in Mother Seton’s journey into full communion with the Catholic Church. When she was able to make her profession of Faith at St. Peter’s Church in Barclay Street in New York, (she was not conditionally re-baptized at the time) it was due in part to the example and care for Elizabeth and her family in Livorno after the death of her husband William Seton. Don Gino Franchi, the pastor for nearly 50 years, has a great devotion to Mother Seton, and saw to the reburial of the remains of William Seton on the Church grounds, because his tomb had nearly been destroyed during the bombing of Livorno during the Second World War.

We were able to celebrate Saint Elizabeth Ann’s feast day with the parish community. The paintings in the parish church clearly show the heritage of Mother Seton in establishing the Catholic school system in our country. This is especially important as we celebrate Catholic Schools Week later this month, and I will be attending a meeting of the U.S. Bishops’ Committee on Catholic Education later this month at Notre Dame, working to strengthen our commitment to Catholic schools.

Some of the other paintings in the Church also celebrate the commitment of the entire Vincentian family to the service and care of the poor. Evident in these paintings is Blessed Frederick Ozanam, who founded the Society of St. Vincent de Paul. The Vincentian family and the Society of St. Vincent de Paul (of whom we have many here in our diocese) have been providing — and still provide– heroic, hands-on, loving and unsung service to the poor and those on the margins of society.

A very blessed new year,

Bishop Kevin Vann

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton in Livorno St. Elizabeth Ann Seton in Livorno

The First Sunday of Advent

Our Lady of Guadalupe

Our Lady of Guadalupe


Dear friends in the Lord,


As we begin a new Liturgical Year with the powerful symbols of the Advent season and the promise of grace and hope that the new Church year always brings, we turn first of all to the opening prayer for today’s Mass.  In the powerful image of this opening prayer we read “Grant your faithful, we pray, almighty God, the resolve to run forth to meet your Christ with righteous deeds at his coming…”


Advent draws first in the mystery of the Lord’s second coming, and then to the mystery of His first at his birth.  We run forth to meet Christ, who in turn comes to us.  This encounter of Faith can be found in the people who cross our paths daily.  As we enter now more fully this new liturgical year, I hope to return a little more often to reflect on these encounters of Faith in the people, prayer and events of the Diocese of Orange, as I did when I began writing this blog some years ago in Fort Worth.  To that end, I would like to reflect on the events of this first Sunday of Advent in our local Church.

The sanctuary window at Our Lady of Guadalupe in LaHabra

The sanctuary window at Our Lady of Guadalupe in LaHabra

First of all, we gave thanks to God for the gift of rain this Sunday, which is the first in many months, and there is more forecast for this week.  Interestingly, I now anticipate rain as much as I did the snow when I was back in the Midwest, in my home Diocese of Springfield in Illinois.First Rain

The rain was evident during my time at Our Lady of Guadalupe in La Habra, which is on the northern boundary of our Diocese, next to the Archdiocese of Los Angeles.  I was there to install Fr. Ed Becker as the new pastor, who succeeds the beloved Msgr. Justin McCarthy.  Msgr. McCarthy was also present along with the parochial vicars, deacons and staff of the parish during this joyful celebration. 

Altar servers after Mass at Our Lady of Fatima

The afternoon saw a group of about 40 Knights and Dames of Malta gather for the rosary for the First Sunday of Advent, led by Abbot Eugene Hayes and members of the Order.  The Order of Malta does great work with the sick and the infirmed, and many of these members (including myself) will be going on the annual pilgrimage to Lourdes in May with those who are ill and infirm and are referred to as malades.   I have been to Lourdes three other times since 1976 and the days in Lourdes are always moments of great grace, healing and perspective on life and Faith.  These are also moments to meet once more the Mother of God who said that “I am the Immaculate Conception” to St. Bernadette. Order of Malta

Finally, in the evening hours I was the main celebrant at a 7:00 PM Mass in Spanish at Our Lady of Fatima in San Clemente.  This was an addition to the parish Mass schedule to help meet the needs of the many Hispanic families in the southern part of our Diocese who cannot for various reasons (employment and family) make the Spanish Masses during the day and in the afternoon.  The Church was full!  The response of the people to this additional Mass was one of gratitude to the Hispanic leaders of the parish and the dedication and vision of the parish priests, Father Jim Reis, pastor, and Fr. William Hubbard, parochial vicar and the parish staff and musicians.  Viva Cristo Rey! 


The Promise of Palliative Care

Dear brothers and sisters in The Lord,

I have had the privilege of spending the last two nights with my father as he is preparing for his journey into eternal life.  This has been a chance for me to return thanks and give back to them, as I have been thinking of the many nights he and mom stayed up with all of us when we were sick!

I have seen first-hand the love and care of all of the sisters, nurses and staff here at St. John’s Hospital hospice here in Springfield who care for him and administer his medications so he is not in pain nor alone in his journey. Their choice of living this life of compassionate care is a blessing to us all.

While we appreciate the wonderful advances of modern medicine – which have given us many cures for diseases and extended our lifespan considerably – many people today also worry that our last days might be filled with undue pain, discomfort, or other indignities.  One hundred years ago, most people died in their own homes; today, most people die in hospitals.  We worry that the diseases that afflict us, or even excessive medical care at the end-of-life, may be too burdensome to bear.  Few of us want to spend our last moments in an intensive care unit, with IV lines and breathing tubes and all the other apparatus of high-tech medicine. 

But this vision of what medicine has to offer the dying is limited; it does not give us the full picture of what is available.  Fortunately, medicine today offers better alternatives for end-of-life care – alternatives that do not involve excessively burdensome interventions that have little chance of benefit.  In fact, there is now a medical specialty all its own devoted to the care and comfort of patients when cure has become impossible: it’s called palliative care.  Good palliative care can offer tremendous solace and consolation to patients and families in the face of an inevitable death.

Good palliative care addresses the needs of the whole person – not just the biological aspects of disease or disability, but the psychological, social, and spiritual needs of people in their final days.  The work of palliative care in medicine is complemented by the hospice movement in nursing, which has made great advances in recent years in allowing patients to die in the comfort of their homes surrounded by loved ones, rather than in a hospital bed.  With these approaches, the goals shift from curing the disease (which at some point becomes impossible) to caring for the person (which always remains possible).  Good pain management, treatment of depression and anxiety, emotional and social support, and spiritual care are among the building blocks of good palliative care.  We understandably fear the effects of terminal diseases – pain, loss of functioning, isolation, or becoming a burden on others.  But with good palliative care, we need not fear that we will spend our last moments in intolerable pain, or alone, or subject to humiliating indignities. 

While he was on this earth, our Lord Jesus Christ’s ministry was a ministry of healing.  In imitation of Christ we are called to provide healing, comfort, and care to the sick, and especially with those whose illnesses prove to be terminal.  At the end of life, medicine has made not only technological advances, but also advances in compassionate care, which we should embrace as Catholics.  Our Catholic faith and morals do not require that we continue to pursue useless or excessively burdensome treatments that have little chance of benefit.  St. John Paul II witnessed to this in his final days: he heroically bore the burdens of chronic Parkinson’s disease for years, but in his last days he decided to forego further intensive medical treatments in a hospital, and instead lived out his final days in his apartment surrounded by caregivers and friends.  He accepted death when God wanted it, without hastening it and without fighting uselessly against it. 

Medicine is built upon a long and venerable ethical tradition, stretching back to the Hippocratic Oath, which can be summarized: when possible to cure, always to care, never to kill. Their choice of living this life of compassionate care is a blessing to us all, and truly enables us –with those whom we love and care for (compassion) — to choose the gift of life at the end of life!

As Pope Francis has said “There is no human life more sacred than another, just as there is no human life qualitatively more significant than another. The credibility of a health care system is not measured solely by efficiency, but above all by the attention and love given to the person, whose life is always sacred and inviolable.”

 In Christ,

+ Bishop Vann

Waiting for the Lord’s call

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I set out to write this column regarding the month of November and the days of All Saints and All Souls and what they teach us about life and eternal life. However, things have changed somewhat and now the reflections on the Eternal Life to which we are called, which we received in our baptism, has now become very personal as I sit by my father’s beside at hospice in Saint John’s Hospital in Springfield , Ill., praying with him into eternal life. I am writing this, as I have occasionally done before, on my iPhone.


For these days and this month, I found these words from All Souls Day yesterday in a parish bulletin from a church where I celebrated Mass: “We do everything possible to eliminate the thought. Yet for the Christian, death is not a moment separate from the rest of life. The deepest hope nourished by the faith is the final encounter with Christ. But that final encounter with him requires we face on a daily basis many options during our lives before that final meeting. The love and the fullness of joy at this final birth are built a day at a time by the efforts that we knowingly exerted because we opened ourselves to the Holy Spirit.”


All Saints Day and All Souls Day have their roots in sacred Scripture, which contemplates the mystery of life and death and our eternal life in the resurrection of Christ. The history and prayers for these days, which go back to the 10th century, were nuanced and clarified and celebrated in various cultural contexts. I have had the blessing to experience these days both in Italy and Mexico. These days remind us that although we are individuals, these passages from death to life are rooted and secured as a response of faith in community. We are not solo and not our own masters.


As I sit here with my father waiting for his passage into eternal life, I remember that we are not far from what was once called the hospital’s “expectant fathers’ waiting room” where he waited for me to be born in the early hours of May 10, 1951. I specially thank the staff of hospice at Saint John’s Hospital. Through their ministry and professional and loving palliative care (like that of the St. Joseph Health system in Orange County) they have ensured that he is not in pain and does not suffer. Their work in palliative and hospice care assures that while the patients here await the Lord’s call, they do not suffer and are not alone. Their presence here is a reflection of the Paschal Mystery of Christ and Saint Paul’s words, “O Death, where is your victory, O Death where is your sting?”


Working together for life and human dignity

Last June a 40-percent increase in abortion funding passed along with the rest of the California budget. Unbelievably, a 10-percent cut in all other hospital and provider fees in the Medi-Cal Program remained, endangering access to essential medical care for all women and families who qualify.

Even more troubling is the reason given for the increase in the Medi-Cal estimate: “Early statewide access ensures services are less costly, whereas lack of access results in increased ongoing expenses for years.” It is apparently more important for the state to prioritize cheap abortions than to enhance primary care and prenatal care for those who are poor and working poor.

The Catholic Church’s position on life beginning at conception is well known and, frankly, is not debatable scientifically. In our pluralistic society, significant disagreements persist on moral and legal questions about abortion. However, even the “safe, legal and rare” mantra of abortion advocates is rarely heard any more in a state that has gone out of its way to refuse any reasonable restrictions to abortion. Refused safeguards—as if an abortion could ever be safe—include the requirement of physicians and safe building standards in facilities that provide abortions, outlawing sex-selective abortions, and parental notification for minors.

We continue to be grateful for the public service of those in office of both parties and we must continue to work together for the common good, especially in those areas that concern the most fundamental right, which is life. It has been a blessing to visit with our officials, both here at home and in Sacramento. As the California Catholic Conference of Bishops, we affirm the necessity of working to improve both major political parties in such a way that they better reflect a fundamental respect for the life and dignity of every human person, especially the poor and most vulnerable. At our most recent Catholic Advocacy Day, we supported the now-passed AB 1579, a bill that acknowledges the humanity of unborn children and allows expectant mothers to collect CalWORKs benefits earlier, thereby enhancing the welfare of both baby and mother.

It’s time for our state officials to come together on common sense approaches to mitigate the suffering of women, children and families in life-affirming ways. The kind of public policy calculation revealed in the recent budget increase does not guard human life and dignity and suggests that our primary response to economically vulnerable populations ought to be a cost-benefit analysis. God forbid!

Through our public policy we have the opportunity to shape the character of our society. What kind of people do we need to be to welcome children into this world? What kind of message does the state send to the next generation of Californians by suggesting abortion as its most significant policy response, over and against properly funding essential medical care for mothers and children?

The Church has worked and continues to stand ready to work with politicians of both parties willing to put aside ideology and work for the betterment of our communities to improve education, create jobs, raise wages, encourage affordable housing and protect the life and dignity of every human person, particularly the most vulnerable, including children, immigrants and others at the economic margins. We can and we must do better for women, children and families in California.

Domestic Violence Awareness Sunday – October 26th

As Catholics in the Diocese of Orange, we are committed to the protection of the life and dignity of every human person, not only during this Respect Life Month, but in our pastoral outreach and ministry as priests of Jesus Christ.  The Gospel of Life, so well-articulated by Pope Saint John Paul II, exhorts us to live this commitment in practical ways. Domestic violence is a hidden threat to our families and communities that demands more of us. As the U.S. Bishops wrote in When I Call for Help: “Violence against women, inside or outside the home, is never justified. Violence in any form—physical, sexual, psychological, or verbal—is sinful; often, it is a crime as well.” As parish priests we have all encountered our share of the spiritual and physical damage that ensues from this reality.


Domestic violence is far too common, affecting women and men, teenage dating relationships, children, and the elderly. Within Orange County, domestic violence is occurring even in our parishes and centers, across all ethnic and economic backgrounds. Domestic violence often occurs concurrently with other pro-life concerns. Here are just a few startling statistics:

  • 1 in 4 women will be physically assaulted by a jealous boyfriend or husband during her lifetime
  • 1 in 5 teenage girls will experience dating violence
  • Children who grow up in homes with domestic violence are more likely to become abusers or be abused
  • 90% of elder abuse is committed by family members
  • In Orange County, 26.3% of women surveyed said they have experienced domestic violence; the state average is 20.5%.


As pastors, parishes, and people of God, we are all called to be bearers of hope to those struggling with domestic violence. I am thankful to all of those who for years have been involved in this ministry, in our time we can respond to these challenges with God-given insights and resources we have now that were not perhaps accessible or understood in years past. We do so in order to make our parishes safe, healthy, healing, and hopeful places for those whose lives are touched by domestic violence, both the victims and the perpetrators. The Gospel offers hope to all and we are well-equipped to be communities that encourage all to find safety and shelter in the loving arms of our God, healing under the care of the Great Physician, and hope in the power of the Holy Spirit.


Strengthened by God’s grace, our call is certainly one of prayer, education, and being of assistance where we can and where the Lord calls us to be.   We can help break the cycle of violence by making our parishes places that can direct people affected by domestic violence to timely help and provide spiritual support along the way.


Thank you for all that you do to live and teach by the Gospel of Life by word and example.



Bishop Vann has designated the last Sunday of Respect Life Month, October 26th, as Domestic Violence Awareness Sunday. Find out more about our Domestic Violence Awareness Initiative, community partners, and more resources: http://www.lifejusticepeace.org/programs-initiatives/domesticviolence/


RESPECT LIFE MONTH: “Misa de Intercesión para Familias con Hijos Discapacitados”

Respect life 4The month of October brings with it a number of themes, topics and prayers to be considered here in the United States, as it has been designated “Respect Life Month” by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.  The packet that the Bishops receive, and accompanying materials, suggestions and prayers have always been helpful.  However, it seems to me, what can speak the strongest in this month (or indeed at any time) is when one encounters a “living Gospel” or living example of living the theme of Respect Life:  or indeed  when one sees the living result of “choosing life” in a person or family.  This echoes the words often attributed to St. Francis of Assisi “preach the Gospel and if necessary use words.”

This was certainly the case this year when for the second time, I celebrated the Intercession Mass for Families of Children with Disabilities, or in Spanish “Misa de Intercesión para Familias con Hijos Discapacitados.” This year was a celebration of the twenty-first anniversary of this Mass, sponsored by the Office for Hispanic Ministry of the Diocese of Orange and the Hispanic Consortium of Orange County. The Mass was held at the parish of St. Boniface in Anaheim, and the care, love of the families – many of them probably with financial struggles and some probably without proper documentation – had for their children (some of them adults by this time with elderly parents or aunts or uncles) was evident.  Some of the children couldn’t speak or had to be restrained and have constant attention by their families.  What was evident to me was how they loved their children and did not see them as a burden in any way.  Many introduced them to me proudly by name and asked for pictures.  I was deeply moved again this year, as was Fr. Gilberto, the pastor at St. Boniface.

These families chose to bring these children to birth, in spite of most likely, great culture and societal pressure for abortion.  It was clear here that a “no” to abortion means a resounding “yes” to life, to care and to support. The witness of the families present at this Mass certainly mirror the words of Pope Francis in Evangelii Gaudium (213).  This is a theme that the Holy Father takes up elsewhere also when he ways that “Among the vulnerable for whom the Church wishes to care for with particular love and concern are unborn children, the most defenseless and innocent among us.  Nowadays efforts are made to deny them human dignity and to do with them whatever one pleases, taking their lives and passing laws preventing anyone from standing in the way of this.  Frequently, as a way of ridiculing the Church’s efforts to defend their lives, attempts are made to present her position as ideological, obscurantist and conservative.  Yet this defense of unborn life is closely linked to the defense of each and every other human right.  It involves the conviction that a human being is always sacred and inviolable in any situation and at every stage of development.  Human beings are ends in themselves and never a means of resolving other problems.  Once this conviction disappears, so do solid and lasting foundations for the defense of human rights, which always be subject to the passing whims of the powers that be.”

Finally, speaking of “passing whims”, these families and their children are “easy targets” for language of “compassionate choice” that the currents of the assisted suicide and right to die movements use so often these days.  We always have to be very attentive and vigilant in this regard and commit ourselves to the proclamation of the inherent dignity of each and every human life.  The Holy Father’s apostolic exhortation certainly does this and urges us on.  Even more so, the love, faith and support of the Faith community for these families at yesterday’s Mass at St. Boniface does so even more!